Communicating With Greater Ease : The Vantage Talker vs. Vector and Scalar Talkers

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I have been trying to figure out this problem for a long while. Communications require Coordinates. If you have the wrong Coordinates, then you cannot converse.

There are Three Required Components for Communication to occur :

You need to know the Location on the Vector (Where in the Story are you? Think “X-Axis” and Order of Events.)

You need to know the Depth of the Conversation (Scalar, Think “Y-Axis”)

You both need to be “On the Same Page.” Equal Footing is both of you on The 0° Line through the Vector.

“On the Same Page” is the Problem.

Before you can converse, the Subconscious Mind calculates (1) Independent / Dependent Placement (2) Story Order and (3) The Depth of the Conversation

This Subconscious Mind Calculation is Stage #2 Of Conversation.

Stage #3 is The Conversation itself.

Stage #1 is the Negotiation and Evaluation for “Independent / Dependent Placement” in the Vector. Stage #1 is the Problem. That is where “Same Page” must be evaluated and determined.

Come with me my dear Friend, Discipulus.

Stage #1 is The Metric of “Vantage Point” to determine WHO is the Independent / Dependent in the Conversation.

If you do not pass Stage #1, then you cannot move on to Stage #2 to Logically have The Conversation.

Narcissists and Abusers Weaponize Stage #1.

To “make sure” they “Have Advantage” they Must be “over” you. So they focus on Vantage Metrics — called the Patriarchy. This is 100% Tit-For-Tat Strategy applied to Conversation to remind you that “I AM THE TEACHER AND YOU ARE INFERIOR” so they can “Control” the Conversation.

This is HOW they Control Conversation. This is The Math they Use. I found the Math behind Controlling Conversation. Guess what, guys… You know what this is? An Ace Card. 🤣🤣 I gift it unto thee, dear friend.

But you cannot have a Conversation anywhere but inside of the Vector and Scalar. So Vantage Talkers default to RHETORIC.

Eventually, sometimes very quickly, the Conversation will break down completely into Insanity because only a Vector and a Scalar can Hold Logical Conversation.

I had one Individual — a PhD — who, no matter what we talked about, he always (1) Put me as his student and (2) talked down to me

I did not need healing, fixing, or advice. I was looking for Friendship.

But he never listened to me. He could only think in terms of (1) I am your savior (2) I am your teacher (3) I am healing you and making you better. He had no idea how to have any other type of a conversation.

Recently he asked me, “How are you now? What precisely Healed you?”

Healed me? I’ve been “Healed” since 2023. A year and a half before I met him. I realized then that he had written himself his own story about me that placed me as an “invalid” and he as my “savior.”

I could not answer him.

Yesterday, he reached out. “I didn’t hear back.”

I said to him, “I only can converse within the Vector and the Scalar. I am not able to communicate any other way.”

Instead of asking what I meant by someone who was “not in the knowing,” he condescended to me and talked down to me. He talked instead in Spirituality terms, directly saying that “Vectors have many different…” He talked like a Karen Spiritualist. He was Vantage Talking and asked, “What Vector I detected.”

Detected? It’s Science. It IS. It’s MATH. One does not “detect” Math. There is only ONE Vector. We live in it.

“Talking Down” and “Condescend” are Symptoms of Vantage Scale Talking, which is The Patriarchy. Only… You cannot communicate inside a Vantage Metric. You can only Measure Placement inside a Vantage Metric. Vantage is not a place for Conversation. It is a tool for Measuring Vantage. See Power Economics.

I simply said, “I cannot converse in these conditions.”

And I felt such GREAT POWER AND CONTROL over my own Conversations suddenly become known to me! Hence this article.

Controlling your Own Conversation

I have to make this clear. “Control” is the word people use for “Control” and “Manipulate.” Please stop using “Control” when you mean “Manipulate.” This is why…

When people Manipulate YOUR Placement in the Vector, then you cannot CONTROL your PART of the Conversation, which is Left and Right / Up and Down.

Say The Truth. Vantage Talking manipulates Conversation. Say The Truth. Take off the Mask.

When you set the Boundaries for You — make it a Personal Law not to be enforced on others — that you refuse to Converse outside of the Vector and Scalar — you Deny all Abusers access to Converse WITH YOU. EVER.

It’s simple “I cannot — do not — converse in these conditions.”

If they ask why, you can give them a simple, “I don’t converse outside of the perimeters of Vector and Scalar.” or “I don’t speak in “Vantage Metrics.”

Or “I don’t speak in “Vantage Metrics” because that is Manipulation of Conversation.”

The end.

“I don’t speak in “Vantage Metrics.” That’s a nice one! :)

No matter what they say — If they are talking with the Metric of Vantage — Patriarchy — instead of inside the Vector and Scalar, they are Manipulating. Do not Converse. It is not Possible or Logical to do so.

Math says so. Logic Says so. Psychological Physics and Power Economics says so.

I had a GF who did this. She was so averse to Logic, that she ONLY and EXCLUSIVELY spoke in Example. Never in Theory. Never in Logic. And only ever in Vantage Talking. She often said to me, “Why do you always have to control the conversation!?” because I refused to let her Manipulate the conversation and she was always pulling me into Vantage Talking. And I refused. That is not where Conversation ever can or does occur.

Only Abusers and the Mentally Ill talk there. Talking inside The Vantage Metric causes Mental Illness. When I fixed this in my brain, I fixed my brain. This is how I did it. I escaped The Vantage Metric.

The Vantage Metric is The Matrix is The Patriarchy.

The Suffocation of this Psychology is never talked about. It is unknown. And also EVERYONE knows it. The Vantage Metric, when you’re trying to talk in Vector — Looms over you, guarding every word you say to ensure you “stay below the listener.” Only… they aren’t listening. They are policing your Words to protect their Vantage.

Do not confuse when someone Corrects your Words to Nourish you vs. Correcting your Words to Manipulate you into Vantage Talking.

Grammatical Correction for Logic so you can better express yourself? Yes!

Word Usage Correction so they can feel “more comfortable” because “Your words don’t make them feel good?” Manipulation.

They often throw in there that “You will get more people to like you.” They will emphasize an importance of “popularity.” Ego over Truth.

It’s the feeling you get when it “feels like” you’re a “kid” around an adult or a peer of your own age no matter what.

“Stay Below The Listener” is not a Healthy place for Conversation.

When you live talking Free in the Vector and in The Scalar, and then you return — even for a breath — to Vantage Metric Talkers — you can’t speak. You can’t breathe. You can’t enjoy the Conversation. You’re being Watched and “Held Down.”

You feel like “you will always be a child” in their eyes.

You feel like “you will always be helpless” in their eyes.

You feel like “you will always be a damsel in distress” in their eyes.

You feel their “Regime” governing your every word.

And nothing you do will ever be “good enough” in their eyes. Vantage Talking.

After you heal, one great side effect is you Exit Vantage Talking. You exist always and only on Vector and Scalar.

People come in to your Life. You use The Vantage Metric to determine “Who is the Torch Bearer” and then you converse.

But if YOU are the Torch Bearer and you come upon a Vantage Talker, they will insist on “Holding The Torch” over you and never “take their place” on Equal Footing with you in The Vector.

Huge sign that someone is a Vantage Talker is when you KNOW you are Smarter than them and they talk down to you.

I had three people in my life who I had to break out of and free myself from Vantage Talking. On one person, it worked. I made it clear, “You do not teach me. You are not qualified to Teach Me.” And one person respected this. We stand on Equal Footing now. One person ignored me completely and “excused themselves” from this declaration as if my words did not exist.

People who declare that “they will teach you” are Vantage Talkers.

If you are not aware of this, you will find yourself often frustrated and irritated at meeting new people. You won’t understand what is going on. You will find it difficult and a challenge to converse with them.

You will always feel “Suffocated” like you can’t breathe around them. Like there is an Invisible “Bubble Wrap + Glass Ceiling” suffocating you, and you can’t break free from it.

I know I used “Suffocate” so many times here… there is just no other word for that feeling. Today, when I declined the Conversation, I regained my Control over The Vector — Freedom to Move within The Vector! And I did feel Free! Yes. “Victor” comes from “Vector.”

I could move left to right, right to left, and up and down! Down and Up!

I was FREE. My new Anna Law? I only converse on the Vector and The Scalar.

Homework And Exercise :

This is too important to not give you this training.

Assignment #1

Pay attention every time you speak to someone. Do you feel like they are “Hovering over your Words” guarding you to make sure you are speaking every word properly?

Are they more interested in your Language than your Freedom and Need to Express yourself?

Are they more interested in “standing over you” and “holding the torch” than actually listening to you?

When you “get away from them” do you feel like you can suddenly breathe?

When you “get away from them” do you feel like you can suddenly relax?

When you begin to converse with them, do you feel your “guard go up” as you tense up and hold your breath? Like YOU are now more focused on “Policing your own Words” than expressing yourself or talking?

If you are feeling these things, then they are Vantage Talkers.

Assignment #2

Find 3 People who are Vantage Talkers and 3 People who are Vector/Scalar Talkers. Notice how you feel different around each person.

This is VERY important. Pay attention to the Feelings of Vector and Scalar Conversations vs. The Feelings of Vantage Metric Conversations.

Pay special attention to Feelings of Freedom, Relaxation, and Natural Fluidity and Flow of Conversation.

Pay special attention Eggshell Walking and “Word Policing” that is present during Vantage Metric Conversations and absent during Vector and Scalar Conversations.

This was KEY in my discovering the Language Differences between Mentally Healthy people and Mentally Ill people. This right here. 100% of Mentally Healthy people speak only in Vector and Scalar Conversations.

100% of Mentally Ill people speak only in Vantage Metric Conversations. When I evaluate New Friendships for “Narcissism and Abuse,” THIS is what I “scan” for. EVERY TIME it works.

I evaluate their ability to hold Vector and Scalar Conversations. You do this, and you will “weed out the abusers” FAST in your life. And then, you will notice another Language.

THIS LANGUAGE is ABSENT among Abusers / Mentally Ill People.

THIS LANGUAGE is PRESENT ONLY among Mentally Healthy People. I call that Language “Abstractic.” It is what I speak.

This is a Mathematically and Scientifically “Cleaned” and “Purified” Language that is 100% Free of Narcissism, Pedophilia, and Mental Illness.

BE WARNED : Vantage Talkers will attack your language to “break it” back into The Vantage Metric so they can control the Conversation and “hold the Advantage over you.” Them “breaking your language” back into The Vantage Metric is your Red Flag that they are sick.

I use Math with Language to measure the Severity and Degree of a person’s Mental Illness. I use the Degrees of Freedom with their Language to place them in the Vector + Depth to measure just how sick they are. In most cases, I only need 2 Sentences. The Math is that predictable.

Language is what Divides us, Segregates us, Attracts others, Repels others.

Assignment #3

Look for your “Dead Squirrel Dramatization” Player.

There is a meme on the Internet going around of a Squirrel playing Dead. It takes the broomstick and lays down under the Broomstick. And “plays dead.” It adjusts the broomstick a moment later to better position the broomstick on its neck. Then the Squirrel extends an arm — dramatically — and plays dead.

I know people like this. The meme of the dead squirrel… and I know people who are like this.

When you talk to these people, they elevate YOU into “Vantage Talker” when you’re not. And then they strike the “Dead Squirrel Dramatization” Pose.

And you’re just like… What the fuck!?

These Are “Vantage Talker Self-Victims.” Vantage Talker Self-Victims are people who have been abused so deeply by Vantage Talkers, that their Self-Preservation System has conditioned them to be Vantage Talker Self-Victims to keep them safe in Conversation.

“Here! Let me just tie myself up and throw myself onto the train tracks in front of the speeding train!”

“Dude. I just wanted to see if I should grab you a soda while I’m at the store.”

The more you talk to them, the more they strike the “Dead Squirrel Dramatization” Pose. I severed all ties with my Vantage Talker Self-Victim person and walked away. They have Mental Work to do.

You can’t converse with them.

You cannot converse with them.

Rhetoric is literally a Study in Philosophy that is “To Argue without Logic or Truth for Persuasion and Ego.”

You cannot converse with Vantage Talkers. They only seek to Keep and Hold The Vantage.

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